First of all a disclosure I am not an IT guy and or programmer and barely know what I am doing myself :D
My first question is: Is your Nuc dedicated hosting hardware?
If so i would maybe suggest an OS that is more hosting focused, I personally use unraid, a friend of mine already used it at the time and helped me set everything up so I just went with it. TrueNAS is the real og and workhorse of the selfhosting world and also big in the professional space. Unraid is pretty simple but more heavy on sytem useage while truenas is more light weight but needs a bit more work beeing done manually. TrueNAS is free, undraid you pay a one time license. Those are the big 2 I know about.
Both of these options have an insane ammount of documentation. And ready to go docker for basically anything you could want.
There is of course much more, for example Debian server comes to mind.
If this is not dedicated hosting hardware and you need a normal desktop environment I can’t help much there.
As far as I understand:
Never expose anything directly to the internet. Tailscale is a good option, I personally use nginx proxy manager as reverse proxy. Both should be fine but Tailscale is more secure tho.
I also only have 3 things exposed: Nextcloud, Immich and foundry vtt.
And keep your shit up to date :D
Hope this helps for now. If you have any additional questions or I missed an important part for you just ask :)
Hi and welcome to the club.
First of all a disclosure I am not an IT guy and or programmer and barely know what I am doing myself :D
My first question is: Is your Nuc dedicated hosting hardware?
If so i would maybe suggest an OS that is more hosting focused, I personally use unraid, a friend of mine already used it at the time and helped me set everything up so I just went with it. TrueNAS is the real og and workhorse of the selfhosting world and also big in the professional space. Unraid is pretty simple but more heavy on sytem useage while truenas is more light weight but needs a bit more work beeing done manually. TrueNAS is free, undraid you pay a one time license. Those are the big 2 I know about.
Both of these options have an insane ammount of documentation. And ready to go docker for basically anything you could want.
There is of course much more, for example Debian server comes to mind. If this is not dedicated hosting hardware and you need a normal desktop environment I can’t help much there.
As far as I understand: Never expose anything directly to the internet. Tailscale is a good option, I personally use nginx proxy manager as reverse proxy. Both should be fine but Tailscale is more secure tho. I also only have 3 things exposed: Nextcloud, Immich and foundry vtt. And keep your shit up to date :D
Hope this helps for now. If you have any additional questions or I missed an important part for you just ask :)