I’ve set it up with docker as a service on a PC in my home and a rented virtual private server which the domain points to, which again routes the traffic to said pc using the static IP from Tailscale.

The rented server runs caddy which makes the routing more or less look like domain.tld { reverse_proxy <<pc_tailscale_ip>> }

Edit: The Matrix Server is the one thing I have not set up with docker, does not really matter for the setup

I might check that out but for now I just added the existing docker-compose file as stacks in Komodo and enabled the auto pull and auto update flags

I shut everything down only to discover nothing runs on php, while shit was going down at work. And I just recently discovered how to run docker compose updates through Komodo which is great.